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It can be intimidating to try something new, and therapy is no different. I’ve heard, ‘how do I talk to a therapist for the first time?’ There are three things that I tell people to remember about their first therapy session: It’s normal and okay to be nervous. Do your best to be honest. And feel free to ask your therapist questions. 

It’s normal and ok to be nervous

If you’re nervous about your first therapy session, you’re not alone. Many people experience anxiety and nervousness at the thought of talking to someone, especially when related to their mental health and wellness. Not only is the process completely new, if you have had other experiences in therapy that weren’t positive, it makes sense to feel hesitation.

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Be honest

As I mentioned, it’s important to be honest in your session, but it’s also ok to let your therapist know if you don’t feel comfortable answering questions or talking about a specific topic. We may unknowingly ask a question that is sensitive and it’s ok to say, ‘I don’t know’ or ‘I don’t want to answer that question right now.’ Therapists are there to listen, and not to judge. 

It’s ok to ask questions

I encourage my patients to ask me any questions they might have to help them feel more comfortable continuing with therapy. Those can be questions about my experience, or their treatment plan.

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What to expect in your first therapy session

The first visit you have will likely consist of your therapist asking a lot of questions to get to know you and what brings you in. Typical questions therapists ask in the first session can include:

  • If you’re feeling anxious, when does it happen the most?
  • How do you feel your symptoms impact your life?
  • Tell me a bit about your background and family life.

Additionally, you may be encouraged to share your reasons for seeking therapy at this time. These questions help therapists understand what you’ve been struggling with and help identify what your goals may be in therapy. 

After your first therapy session

As your first session wraps up, you should have a general idea of a treatment plan to help you address your objectives for therapy; such as how often you’ll meet and if applicable, a referral for medications. 

Doctor On Demand offers easy access to virtual counseling

At Doctor On Demand by Included Health, we have licensed therapists and psychiatrists who specialize in anxiety, depression, grief and loss, and more. You may benefit from talking to someone outside of your close family and friends. We’re here when you’re ready, and available 24/7, everyday of the year, including holidays.